Thinking Out Loud
Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda
March 30, 2008
Pat Paxton, College Baseball Hub
College baseball players should be proud that they are college baseball players.
They work hard. Balancing school, practice, weights, games, travel, and social life is a huge challenge. If they didn’t love their sport, they couldn’t do what they do. The only home for a non-committed player, is a perennially weak and unorganized program, where there is no emphasis on the work of getting ready to play.
Contention: Succeeding at the collegiate level appears to be half ability and half desire.
Some may divide it into thirds, adding “work ethic”. However, I see work ethic as part of “Desire”, because if you have enough desire, you are willing to do the work. If you don’t have enough desire, you won’t do the work.
Honestly, seeing what all they have to go through, if they didn’t have great desire, they couldn’t be a college baseball player. Which leads me to the point of this rambling.
A few years ago, there was a pretty good baseball player who was in ninth grade, who decided not to try out for the high school team. That’s fine. However, he then spent the entire spring and following summer, announcing to everyone how he would have been in the starting line up had he decided he wanted to play. He did nothing, while the actual players did all of the work. Yet, he proclaims he would have been a starter. That bugs me.
Taking that scenario up a level, there was a standout high school player at a neighboring school, that was blessed with quite a bit of ability and physical attributes. He was getting some D1 interest, and appeared to have the ability (half of the requirements) to play D1 ball. However, he chose not to play in college. He was going to concentrate on being a full time student. Again, that’s totally fine.
However, there was a newspaper article written later on, lamenting about “what might have been” if only he had played. And, “Oh, what a great talent”, and “How far could he have gone?” “We’ll never know.” Blah, blah, blah. The player was quoted as saying something to the effect, “Yeah, I could be playing college ball right now”. That bugs me.
I contend that he would not have made it in college baseball. He didn’t have the second, equally important half of the formula for success in collegiate baseball: Desire.
If you don’t love it, and aren’t dying to play the game, you aren’t going to make it through the monotonous running and long tossing of September. You’ll decide to turn off your alarm clock, roll over, and snooze through your 6 AM weight lifting session in November. You’ll say, “Hey, this my Christmas break. I shouldn’t have to condition over the holidays, or report back to school on January 2nd.” You’ll decide it’s too much trouble to spend six days a week in the off-season lifting, running, throwing, hitting in the cage, practicing, and doing yoga (yes, yoga) on Saturday mornings.
And we’ve not even touched on doing all of that, traveling, missing classes, and keeping your grades up like all the other students. Correction: the players have the added pressure of not being allowed to be a player if they don’t make the necessary grades. In addition to all of this, they never get to go home for a weekend during the entire spring semester, and only during Thanksgiving in the fall. Throw a girlfriend into that mix, and you’ve got absolutely no free time. However, an understanding girlfriend can do a lot good.
Let me be clear. There’s nothing wrong with not having the desire to play college baseball. Not playing is fine. Just don’t say you could have.
Thank you for allowing me to vent about a pet peeve of mine: The people who chose not to play college baseball, but then have the nerve to say they could have. I say they could not have.
So, here’s to you, Actual College Baseball Player, who possesses both requirements for playing college baseball: ability and desire. Whether you’re the star of your team, or never get to play, you are to be congratulated. Not many can do what you do. The work habits you’re developing now will serve you well throughout your lifetime.